Sexual Dysfunction.
Caused by Depression
Can be Soul Destroying.
Sexual Dysfunction can often be a symptom of Depression or Anxiety and if it is not managed it can be totally soul destroying.
If any person encounters Impotency for any reason they can then easily fall victim to the additional destructive emotional effects of Depression or Anxiety, that is, if they are not in the grip of it already.
The negative power of Depression and Anxiety brought Impotency into my life without much warning.
My life was already spiralling out of control.
My world was being turned upside down with emotional trauma, and the last thing I needed to experience was an encounter with any form of sexual dysfunction.
If you have started to experience any changes in your ability to develop or maintain an erection, or you, or your partner, notice anything out of the ordinary during foreplay or during sex get yourself to a medical expert straight away.
The cause may be a result of life’s stresses, Depression, Anxiety or it may be from a physical issue.
Whatever the reason is, you must jump on it straight away.
One way or another bad sex can kill your pleasures in life and no sex can lead to even worse developments.
So don't hide your changing conditions, talk about them.
Experts have filled libraries with many really great books on problems associated with Depression and its causes and effects of Sexual Dysfunction.
Some of the books can be overwhelming and just damn hard reading.
I personally prefer to grab hold of a book that is serious about the problem but deals with it in a light hearted manner.
I found a lot of answers when I started talking about what was happening to me.
I found a Natural Therapist who is trained in Sexual Therapy, its benefits to our mind, the causes and effects of dysfunctional issues.
We used a lot of the Cognitive Therapy disciplines, we would talk at length about what was happening and what was not happening within my thoughts and feelings.
I found talking about my day to day feelings and pressures would reduce a lot of tension and anxiety.
Be prepared to talk about any emotional trauma you have recently experienced.
I was pleasantly surprised with my Therapist's knowledge and ability to help reduce and overcome some of my problem.
I thought my problem was exclusive to me! No, not so. Other people actually suffer similar problems. Knowing that fact actually helped me in my fight to recovery.
I also found a medical practitioner who works with natural therapies and he kept a close check on changes as they happened.
Drug companies make squillions of dollars producing effective drugs to reduce Sexual Dysfunction problems or enhance your 'pleasures'.
Yes I found some drugs do work but only for awhile! I found it was much better to cure the cause so I can live your normal life without artificial support.
One of my biggest lessons and achievements that helped me to return to a more natural life was when I started to learn about the true Art of Love Making and the play in making love.
If, in the past you relied only on the effect of gaining an erecting to achieve what you thought was pleasure you are going to be blown away when you start finding the higher levels of great sexual fun and truly stimulating sexual pleasures.
If that is where you were when your world collapsed on you, it is time you started to learn to really enjoy life’s pleasures.
Good sex is not all about a rock solid erection. That will come later.
I believe Our body has a natural hunger for pleasure. Good sex is part of the our body's natural pleasures.
Good sensual, sexual pleasures are achieved through many different channels from within your mind.
It actually begins well before any physical contact.
It comes through from each of your senses, touch, taste, sight, smell and hearing including imagination and fantasy, it is great.
Nothing equals the endorphins that explode within your mind.
I was taught to relax and explore my senses for the pleasures that will flow.
I slowly started to understand an erecting is good but not important to enjoy the major and beautiful pleasures that are there as well.
I slowly learnt to fill my pleasures in better ways. I eventually found that the Art of true Love Making will over-ride all sexual dysfunction problems I had in my mind.
Meditation is good for you soul and is a powerful tool to use to fight against Depression.
Good nutrition is vital for you body to function correctly. So no matter what else happens you must maintain an active metabolism.
Read as much information as you can on how certain foods carry higher nutritional benefits to reduce Depression and in turn can be a benefit against Sexual Dysfunction.
But do not forget to read and enjoy reading about all the pleasures of love making and the art of making love.
Learn the trigger points in your feelings that allow you to be aware of and feel your partner’s responses.
Learn to feel her energies as they swell from inside her. Share with her, your energies as they build from within you.
Make, Love Making a pleasurable game and Play the game of pleasure with each other. You will soon forget your previous thoughts about Sexual Dysfunction.
Learn to relax in your partner’s energy. Learn to enjoy the true pleasures of foreplay.
Encourage your partner to lead.
Relax and Enjoy. Yes, RELAX and then you may enjoy.
Read some of the well written and well researched books on the true Art of Love Making.
When you start to feel a little more comfortable and interested in what the books are saying, talk to your partner about the books you have read. Leave the books on the bedside table and let your partner read them also.
BUT where do you find well written and properly researched books on the topic of overcoming sexual dysfunction problems which have been caused by the onset of Depression or Anxiety?
I found I was totally embarrassed about the idea of being in a public bookshop and scanning through the many books on Depression or Anxiety let alone the embarrassment of being seen reading information about Sexual Dysfunction, Impotence or the Finer Art of Sensual Love Making.
I buy many of my research and better knowledge books On-line through Amazon and search engines like Google, from the comfort and security of my own home.
I found the Amazon Book Shop has the publisher’s review of the book and also offers reliable information about a book written by independent readers of the books.
If you feel the same as I did and you do not want to be seen in the public book shop scanning the many 'How to Enjoy Good Sex' topic books on the shelves I have a great solution, click on this
Book Shop
link or go to the Book Shop button on the navigation bar and do your searching in the comfort of your home.
You may even make a suggestion to your partner, or potential partner that you both check out the Amazon Book Shop together and talk about the reviews of the different books and which books you feel you should buy to read together.
Make it a fun thing to do.
It is not uncommon for some men to refuse to talk about their sexual problems. They will not discuss what is happening to them with their partner or their mates.
Learn the Art of Love Making
Give pleasure - pleasure will flow back to you many times over, and over, and over.
Build your inner strength and build your mind’s good energy and you will achieve everything that is true to you.
Your Sexual Dysfunctions problems will become and distant memory.
Remember to consult your Natural Therapist.
You can and will defeat emotion destroying Sexual Dysfunction if it has been caused by Depression you will beat it.
If your impotence is related to a physical illness your doctor or complementary natural therapist can guide you.
If your problem is being caused by Depression or Anxiety or associated feelings, worrying about it is only going to increase you fears.
Take a massage and relax.
Encourage yourself to relax – meditate – look after your health – maintain good nutrition – read some books – listen to music – talk to friends – seek counsel with a caring woman.
Learn the alternative pleasures in the Art of Love Making. Pleasures other than those found just in the act of sexual intercourse. Even the phrase sexual intercourse lacks feeling. It is no wonder we encounter Sexual Dysfunction problems in life.
Remember, there are two of you involved in the Art of Love Making.
Become an Artist. Encourage your growth in the pleasures of the finer arts.
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